The 'have a moan' thread

[emmasi]

Meh, whinge. It's what we're here for

[honeychild]

i just got my braces tightened

and it hurts

and i got to go to rowing training later

and i cant be bothered

*grumps*

[Lesley Bee]

I am so fed up with this cold I've only gone through about 5000 boxes of tissues

[valli]

It's my term exam in Norwegian tomorrow and I'm so nervous The grade I get will pretty much be the factor that decides the final grade in Norwegian.... Yeah, no pressure

[Lesley Bee]

^ Good Luck, hope everything goes well

[Barbara]

I am so fed up with this cold I've only gone through about 5000 boxes of tissues

I hope you feel better really soon.

It's my term exam in Norwegian tomorrow and I'm so nervous The grade I get will pretty much be the factor that decides the final grade in Norwegian.... Yeah, no pressure

Good luck!

My moan: I had a day off today and I was planning to do some research on the Internet. But we had a power failure. Without power, you can't do anything. No Internet, no music, no TV, no microwave... I spent the day reading a magazine and cleaning my room and that's not fun when you don't have music in the background.

How did people use to live without electricty?

I'll have to do my research this weekend.

And I have a cold.

[Liska]

I'm sorry for you, Barbara!

And I also have a cold! What is that with the weather in Belgium?! It is spring and two weeks ago it was snowing!

My moan (I warn you; it's a long story!): Four weeks ago I met this guy. His name was Dieter. And we really liked each other. So one week later we kissed and we became a couple. So we were a couple and then again one week later, we broke up. He broke up with me; he said that he didn't have feelings anymore for me. But that was weird! Because the day before he broke up with me, he didn't want me to leave. I had to go home, but he didn't want me to leave and he wanted me to stay. And than, the next time I see him, he breakes up with me! When he broke up with me, I wasn't sad first because we were only one week together. It wasn't that long. But then, I actually missed him really hard. He was the only one I could think about. I actually wanted him back, even when he was rude about me. Because he said some rude things about me. But he doesn't know that I know that he said those rude things. And all my friends were saying that I deserved better, so after three days I wasn't sad anymore. But then again one week later (that was last week), I ran into him. There was this party and he was also there. And we just talked like friends, but my friends were saying that I couldn't kiss him (my friends thought that I would kiss him that night) because I deserved better and he didn't deserve me because I was too good, too nice for him even if he was rude about me. I said I wouldn't kiss him and that we were just talking. But I drunk some alcohol (In Belgium we can drink alcohol when we are 16 years old, but at party's they serve it to younger kids like me. I'm 15 years old. And in 9 days I'm 16!) so I wasn't aware of what I was doing and my friends were right! They thought I would kiss him again and yes, I kissed him again! And that was a bad mistake! A really bad mistake! I still have some feelings for him, but it wasn't my intention to kiss him. Right after we kissed I had to go home so we didn't say anything about our kiss. We didn't say anything to eachother the whole week. And last weekend I saw him again at a party and he ran away from me! I went to a friend to say hi, but I didn't see he was also talking to that friend. So when I arrived by that friend, he just ran away because of me. And he also said that he didn't know anything about our kiss last week, because he had too much alcohol. But actually he does know that we kissed, but he won't admit it. And I don't know what to do! I think I still have feelings for him, but everyone is saying that I can't be together with him anymore because he was so rude about me and because he first dumped me and than kissed me again. They don't want me to get back with him, because I deserve better and he actually lied to me because he said he didn't know anything more about our kiss, when he actually did know. They think it's not fair to me. I know it's a stupid story, but I'm always thinking of him and this story. And I just don't know what to do and it makes me depressed.

[Barbara]

^ I want more sun in Belgium. Is that too much to ask? A lot of people I know are ill at the moment.

Liska, I'm not an expert in relationships but I agree with your friends. I think you deserve better than that guy, especially if he said some rude things about you. It sounds like he can't make up his mind. One day he doesn't want you to leave; the next day he breaks up with you. One day, he kisses you; later, he runs away from you. You deserve a guy who knows he wants to be with you.

[Liska]

^ I want more sun in Belgium. Is that too much to ask? A lot of people I know are ill at the moment.

Liska, I'm not an expert in relationships but I agree with your friends. I think you deserve better than that guy, especially if he said some rude things about you. It sounds like he can't make up his mind. One day he doesn't want you to leave; the next day he breaks up with you. One day, he kisses you; later, he runs away from you. You deserve a guy who knows he wants to be with you.

I also wont more sun in Belgium! Why does it always have to rain? It's not like we asked for it!

And I think you are right about him. And I think I do deserve better, but it's hard to let him go I guess.. Well, I'll get over him in a while I guess.

[Barbara]

I really hope we'll have a nice summer this year, especially seen as I'm going to spend 2 weeks in the south of the country in July.

Keep yourself busy and spend time with your friends. Eventually, you'll get over him. And then, when you least expect it, a decent guy will come along.